Freshman boy dating senior girl validating an instrument
Now, I'm not so naive that I think my son is perfect but up to this point, that I know of, he has never lied to me.I may have failed to mention in my OP that the co-worker that told me this story is a drama queen and always trying to stir up gossip.He wouldn't have the opportunity to see her alone outside of school. We started dating in September and lasted until May.I know my son is supposed to like girls but this one is freaking me out a bit. He was in lots of sports and I often went to his games. I got along well with his parents and we had a lot of fun. My advice would be what do you know about this girl? I don't have kids so I'm not sure how I would react, but I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing.
I know I shouldn't think badly of the girl [or boy] and but the age to me is big a difference considering where they are at in school. If you tell him someone told you what they saw, how will he react? This might be a discussion you want to have with him too.
Most teen girls are far more mature than their male peers... Now she is dating a boy a year older and no one has said a word.
Although it's a little different than the norm, I know many freshman girls who have gone out with senior boys and no one seems to think anything of it (although my dd never did in h.s so I probably wouldn't have been too thrilled but one boy she did go out with was her own age and extremely aggressive so I really do think it depends on the person).
(I feel for your son and the teasing he is taking from his dad. I love him, and he meant well, but it did embarrass me!
) I have asked questions, and given you very little advice. Dad already knows and we'll be asking DS about it when he gets home tonight.
Her daughter is the same age as my son and has always had a crush on him.