Dating an ex whos cheated before
Unfortunately, his ex-wife cheated on him, and married her lover the day after their divorce was final.
And ultimately, Vicki, that’s really all you can do. All you can do is make him feel safe and loved and lucky.
You know how people's minds work: Before you can even explain what happened, she'll think you're dating one of them and have cheated on her 11 times. Once a girl has been cheated on, she can see a red flag a mile a way.
That's just where her mind goes until you earn her trust. She's going to want to meet your friends, so they know she exists. Do something shady and she won't hesitate to call you out, because girlfriend isn't going through another heartbreak. She might over-share details of her last relationship, hoping desperately that history doesn't repeat itself. She has borderline intimate relationships with her best girlfriends. She knows how painful it is, and would never inflict that on another person.
Just like she's going to ask you who you're texting occasionally.
But this is a fair and totally normal question to ask if you're going to be in a relationship with her — unless you're up to something shady, in which case she'll dump you like that *snaps fingers*. Taking pictures with random chicks or bottle girls and posting them on social media will only cause her pain.
He may never “get over” the experience of having blind faith in a partner; I know my wife hasn’t.